The role of the father, in the same way as the role of the mother in the life of the child is exaggerated extremely difficult. Every mother and every father has one of the strongest instincts on earth – a parent instinct. Usually people speak only about the existence of the maternal instinct and play down the father’s importance in the life of the child, reducing this meaning mainly to material support. But recently in one of the TV programs I heard about authoritative scientific research, according to which the parent’s instinct is not weaker than the mother’s instinct, provided that the father is sufficiently communicating with the child. This led me to certain thoughts, I thought about my father and the relationship with him, and eventually agreed with this result
My father was the best example for me at all times. He is calm and calculating, representing almost the exact opposite of the emotional mother. In my earliest childhood, I communicated more with my mother, and so sometimes I did not understand my father, but at a certain age a lot of information seemed to fall on me, and I realized that he was always right. Life is a very complicated thing, it can never be understood using emotions. Every little thing must be considered and only then make a well-considered decision. Haste in making decisions is only permissible when there is limited time for such a decision. In all other cases, you need to think carefully and only then to do it. In addition, my father is also determined. When a deliberate decision has already been taken, doubts can only prevent its implementation. It is necessary to discard all doubts and do what I have decided. Also my father has a desire to control the situation around him. Personally it seems to me that this is not even acquired quality, but innate, as I rarely notice it in people. It is that he is restless and uncomfortable if he does not know where his relatives are, what they do and how they do. I have not yet taken this quality. But I was able to grasp the usefulness of such human qualities as truthfulness. Once, when I tricked my father
My father did many worthy deeds and was always an excellent example for me. Due to the fact that he always gave the best advice and helped me with problems and difficulties, I can say that he really loves me. No matter how difficult my life circumstances are, I always imagine how my father would act in my place.