Personality is not born, they become a person. About how this happens and what should be the final result, I will describe in this article. The process of becoming a person begins with a deep childhood, when a person begins to unconsciously copy the behavior of people around him. Thus, at the first stages of personal development from a person that little depends. But with the accumulation of ideas about different models of behavior and their consequences for certain situations in the memory of a person, he faces a choice of such a model for himself and his situation. In most cases people are equal to “most”, do not want to stand out – they follow the generally accepted norms and rules. And about those few people say: “Became a person.”
How do they initially differ from other people who would not like to become a “personality”, but somehow do not recognize their surroundings? My opinion on this matter is that it’s all about courage. A brave person will not be afraid of extraordinary actions that run counter to the expectations of others. He will not remain silent where it is necessary to tell the truth, even if it is not beneficial to him personally, but will help someone else or some common cause. A brave person will never give up responsibility, even where he does not really depend on him in fact. Still a person makes a
Try to find several items that you least match, and understand the reason for this discrepancy. It is not easy to become a person sooooo, but realizing that you have not yet become one and for what reasons, will greatly help you become it! Becoming a person is never too late. Do not waste time, become a person! I wish you success!