Personality is not born, they become a person. About how this happens and what should be the final result, I will describe in this article. The process of becoming a person begins with a deep childhood, when a person begins to unconsciously copy the behavior of people around him. Thus, at the first stages of personal development from a person that little depends. But with the accumulation of ideas about different models of behavior and their consequences for certain situations in the memory of a person, he faces a choice of such a model for himself and his situation. In most cases people are equal to “most”, do not want to stand out – they follow the generally accepted norms and rules. And about those few people say: “Became a person.”
Personality in a person begins to notice only when he begins to stand out from the environment. As a rule, personalities stand out for their “strong” non-standard actions. In this case, the person can become
not only “positive”, but also “negative” (I write in quotes, since these concepts are purely subjective and depend on the ethical and moral representations of the evaluator). Not for nothing there are concepts like “vile personality”, “mean person”, etc. But more often the phrase “Became a person” is used for people who differ from others in a positive way by firmness of character, sharpness of mind, kindness of the soul, willpower. So why only a few become a person?
How do they initially differ from other people who would not like to become a “personality”, but somehow do not recognize their surroundings? My opinion on this matter is that it’s all about courage. A brave person will not be afraid of extraordinary actions that run counter to the expectations of others. He will not remain silent where it is necessary to tell the truth, even if it is not beneficial to him personally, but will help someone else or some common cause. A brave person will never give up responsibility, even where he does not really depend on him in fact. Still
a person makes a person diligence and curiosity. Hard work contributes to the accumulation of a large number of useful experiences, and curiosity – to knowledge. If we consider the meaning of the word “personality”, then we will understand its initial meaning – “face”, or rather, its presence. Natural separation from other people. In my opinion, one can say about a person that he became a person in the event that he: has a firm vital position; completely trusts his reason and feelings; knows how to resist indignation from outside; clearly defined the meaning of his life; has a vivid desire to develop, improve; not to be afraid of responsibility; prefers to speak only the truth; Not nervous, does not worry about trifles; has good willpower. The more of the above comes to you, the more likely that you are a person. improve; not to be afraid of responsibility; prefers to speak only the truth; Not nervous, does not worry about trifles; has good willpower. The more of the above comes to you, the more likely that you are a person. improve; not to be afraid of responsibility; prefers to speak only the truth; Not nervous, does not worry about trifles; has good willpower. The more of the above comes to you, the more likely that you are a person.
Try to find several items that you least match, and understand the reason for this discrepancy. It is not easy to become a person sooooo, but realizing that you have not yet become one and for what reasons, will greatly help you become it! Becoming a person is never too late. Do not waste time, become a person! I wish you success!