“Please!” – Every day we ask to convey something, inform, send. We speak, as expected, out of politeness. Or maybe I should use words more often? Do not we notice how it becomes more joyful in our souls when the mood of those around us is improving. The noble example is ultimately contagious. Good deeds generate a chain reaction. So let us be kinder!
Different people suffer in different ways. For some, this is just an unpleasant state, while for others it is real suffering. But in any case, this feeling is painful, which drains the nervous system and can cause illness.
Let’s see what offense is born and how it arises. First of all, it hurts you that the behavior of another, his thoughts, actions do not correspond to your ideas about what they should be. Resentment makes us wicked, vindictive, inordinately demanding of others. And if we recognized the right of others to behave in one way or another, where to take offense? And are not we often in our grievances like the Persian king Xerxes, who ordered to punish the Bosphorus Strait with whips for the fact that he raged and upset his plans? The insult can be prevented. It is necessary to comprehend in advance what causes it, to change its expectations, to bring them closer to reality, to the capabilities of another person. When you follow this rule, other people will change themselves towards you.